Peter:
[0:01] Hello everyone and welcome back and thank you so much for tuning into another episode and today we have another really good juicy episode because i'm joined by julia stapleton who's in the studio with me today hello julia hello thank you so much for joining us and so julia and i like we obviously have found and bonded because we have a real big common element through both of our work and that is about frequency calibration and like vibration we love this stuff and our journey and we have really bonded over this particular topic we've we had a 15 minute chat originally which turned into, I think, what was that? An hour, an hour and a half?
Julia:
[0:58] It felt like five minutes.
Peter:
[1:01] So it's amazing when you get onto a topic that you really just do enjoy. But to lead us into this, Julie, like you, like spirituality is now a big frame of your work. Jumping into calibration of frequency and vibration is, you can just tell, it's so important to you because you've kind of come from a background where it wasn't so much of a big thing in your life, but it all of a sudden has become such a big part of your life. Can you walk us through that part of your journey for us?
Julia:
[1:34] I was always around spirituality. My certain family members have either been into it. It was more leaning towards religion, but with spirituality infused into it and also just experiences that so I always believed in certain things but I never really practiced it or I always thought it was like a gift that some people had it wasn't something that we all were or we all could use it was more like you know the tarot readers the psychics and all that just people with certain gifts so I kind of viewed it as a very special power for certain people.
Julia:
[2:13] And as with anything in life, for me, once I discovered something, I just dive deep and really go all into it. So it's kind of like hard with anything, like with my art, with my work, with my hobbies, same with spirituality. Once I discovered it, it was like I just had to absorb all of it. I had to listen to all the podcasts. I had to read books. I had to take the trainings. And as things would lead one thing to another to another, I discovered a certain way and a certain path into spirituality that really dove even deeper into it. Where before I thought I was really learning all of these things, but it was just scratching the surface. And once I really have gone through the awakening experience, that's just really opened things up. And as you probably found at some point in your past before as well, once your eyes are open to this world and how we are the spiritual beings first and our human bodies second, and there's just no looking back. You just can't unsee what you have seen. It's just no other way of being anymore.
Peter:
[3:27] I love your face as you say that because it's just like you're going, guys, you just have to believe me because once you do, it's like, yeah, it's true, it's true.
Julia:
[3:41] Sometimes it's a little bit frustrating that people are so oblivious to it, but I try to, you know, remind myself that everyone's on their own journey and I was that oblivious before as well. But, yeah, I mean, like, I just can't talk about it enough.
Peter:
[3:57] See, I love it. And that's why, like, a 90-minute conversation could feel like five when you have something in common. And I find the same thing too is when you meet someone who's on the same wavelength, understanding the journey, and like you said, has seen that space and has touched that space, you can't go back. I've got a very dear friend of mine who from time to time and more so recently has reminded me of that fact of going, oh my god the things that you've made me see i can't unsee it now so she's seeing and viewing her life from a totally different perspective but if you don't mind i just want to, back a quick second because let's just go back when you're saying like it was kind of mixing with family religion but you said that you believed certain things just out of curiosity what were those certain things that you did believe at the very beginning of your journey i just want to know.
Julia:
[4:53] I believed in something greater than us like a greater power in things in space which aren't exactly just like planets or whatever that there's more out there that there's more beings out there even if we don't understand what they are we can't see them they don't have to be same as us i believed in ghosts even though i haven't really had any experiences myself but some family members have had quite a lot my mom is quite intuitive in her dreaming and she has often received information in her dreams but she never wanted a part of it so she tried long and hard to shut that off from herself and I think she eventually succeeded even though she still tapped into it but she doesn't want to be but she is and I think I've kind of inherited that from her a little bit because a lot a lot of things happen to me in dreams like I manifest in dreams I clear things in dreams I receive messages I communicate in dreams with like spirit of, even like living people or receiving downloads from wherever, from the source as well.
Peter:
[6:05] Yeah. So this really is kind of coming from that. And then, like you said, it's like you've delved into it, you've gone down this rabbit hole, which as we both now know is like, it's like going into a black hole. You're just going to get lost into the void and go, oh, this is interesting. And so you've done all of this, you've delved deep into it. And, of course, you are very true to your word of when you latch onto something, you go all in. There is no half-arsing it. It is like you're all in. I think that's absolute testimony to if you're listening on, you know, something like Apple or Spotify, not watching the vid, you'll actually see behind you that she loves arts and crafts. She's a very good artist. There's a wishing well all her craft stuff behind her as well. So everything is like, you know, you go all in. Now, you said even though going all in, listening to the podcasts, you're reading the books, you're doing all of this, but then it really, like, for lack of a better word, I suppose, up-leveled or, like, the understanding and the appreciation, I suppose, the embodiment of what you were learning came massively for you when your awakening really did start to happen. But this is relatively recent for you, isn't it? This is only like,
Peter:
[7:25] what, 12 months ago or so?
Julia:
[7:26] Yeah, just about this.
Peter:
[7:28] So, that's not that long ago to really – so, what was happening there? What was this moment? What was this awakening? Because I know there's heaps of my listeners, you know, might be having something similar. I do talk about awakening sometimes. So, what's your awakening? What was the process? What did you go through?
Julia:
[7:45] Yeah. And like I just want to say for some people it happens in – like for everyone it happens in different ways. Often what can happen is there's some sort of a life event or a trigger that really opens up your I don't know third eye or something that really pulls you out of the matrix of the 3D physical world and you kind of start seeing things in a new way mine was actually on purpose.
Julia:
[8:11] It was triggered by a mentor, but I'll tell you what led up to it. So as I was diving into manifestation, I've taken a lot of programs and I've achieved a lot of things. And the more I was going into it, the more burnt out from it I felt because there was new things that you had to learn. There's the human design there is astrology there is reiki there is something else so i felt like i couldn't manifest the life i wanted unless i knew all of these things because there'd be a limiting belief here there'd be a limiting belief there you can't clear that unless you heal ancestral trauma so i have to learn about that i have to go to the practitioner so it was just going down this rabbit hole was just going deeper and deeper i'm like there's got to be an easier way like how some people just do it naturally some people achieve all these things before they even find out all this other stuff like why do i feel like i have to learn and it's like my trait that i'm just forever alone and i feel like there's always something i don't know which which is a good in one way but then not good because i feel like i can't achieve things until i know everything but you can't possibly know everything anyway so i feel burnt out your face there again i.
Peter:
[9:35] Just this is for the people listening your face is like but i'm determined i'm gonna learn as much as i can i'm gonna because you're like yeah i can see that.
Julia:
[9:42] Determination look.
Peter:
[9:43] On your face i just it's just you are you're so committed it's so passionate.
Julia:
[9:47] I love it but yeah and that leads to burnout and it was okay people that passion.
Peter:
[9:53] That what i was just talking please if that's leading to burnout maybe maybe that's not a good thing but just okay.
Julia:
[9:59] Before we jump into that you're saying burnout okay and you.
Peter:
[10:02] Might be getting to this and i apologize if i've interrupted you in the flow there but i mean so it led to burnout what what's what's the burnout what was this for you.
Julia:
[10:12] So burnout and the causes are different for everyone but i feel like when you're in it the energetic state is the same like everyone can relate to it so you kind of feel like you're beating your head against the wall like you can't move past a certain point that you just don't know which way to go because you're just exhausted and tired and frustrated and you want to get to that next stage but you've kind of exhausted all your energy and you're just, withdrawing and shutting down that's kind of like what burnout feels to me and I feel like in manifestation and all of that it's more like you know you're trying to achieve a goal or something and you're just against that brick wall and it would be the same whether it's someone in business or someone with the relationships or whatever I feel like the the core emotion and energetic state would be the same for everyone it's just how everyone views it through different lenses would be different.
Peter:
[11:14] Okay and so this is leading you obviously you're experiencing this so obviously you're feeling that sense of stuck and not having energy you're withdrawing and so this is what was leading you to like this purposeful awakening.
Julia:
[11:29] Well it wasn't leading me I was just, you know, powering on through it, which is what you do. You just go with what you know.
Peter:
[11:37] Spoke like a true trooper. Like, no, you know what? I've stuck energy. Who needs that? I've got nothing reserved. Let's do this.
Julia:
[11:44] I mean, unless you know something different, you just keep going with what you know, don't you? But obviously, on the back of my mind, there was something that there's got to be an easier way. I just didn't know that way. I wasn't necessarily looking for the way because you don't know what you don't know. It's like one of those things. unless you can Google something and you're like, what is the easier way to manifest things without learning all this stuff? Like you're not going to Google that.
Peter:
[12:05] Did you try that?
Julia:
[12:08] But maybe chat gbt i feel like i want to try that just.
Peter:
[12:11] To see what the answer is now maybe chat gbt can help us.
Julia:
[12:13] Out with a few answers now you know it's the technology moving fast um yeah but what happened was actually i was listening to a podcast and there was an episode with this lady and she was talking about exactly what i was looking for she was saying how she's gone through this awakening and she then realized all these things and how creation really works and how it's really counterintuitive and it's opposite to what you normally get taught with the.
Julia:
[12:40] Manifestation world and all those things and it's just like it's and it's easy and this is how it should be feeling this is how it should be working and things like that so then i started following her for a while then i did like a mini program with her and that kind of opened things up for me but then nearly 12 months later that's when i was working with her one-on-one and that was the purpose of her work it's really taking you through the awakening really unplugging you pulling you out with your roots from the 3d like as you sort of in this world like rooted in this world kind of pulling you out completely so that you're forgetting everything that you knew and you look at the world in a completely different way so it's kind of like this complete shift of how you see the world, how you see yourself, how you see creation. And through that process, that's how it happened for me. Like, you know, I saw things in a new way. I cleared a lot of beliefs. I cleared a lot of stuff. There was this whole big purging process that you kind of just –.
Julia:
[13:47] Forgetting the way that you saw the world before and in addition to it obviously then you open yourself up to the source and receiving from the source and which is like different for everyone but for me that was like through a lot of dreams and i was receiving a lot of information and a lot of um kind of connection with my career and my logical understanding of the way frequencies worked and things like that and how then my understanding kind of linked those things together and made sense for me so that I could apply it energetically but with an understanding to make it easier for me so kind of it all kind of happened over maybe a month two months period and then I was practicing it and just finding out fine-tuning and all those things but.
Peter:
[14:40] I have to admit, when you're saying, like, I'm not going to hold back here because you're saying, oh, yeah, that process, one or two months. Guys, look, how easy does that sound like one to two months? But it does, like, even though it's a short period of time, there's definitely no doubt about the level of intensity of that shift or the purge that you're referring to. Now, I'm going to throw a bit of a curveball here, what would you say is the hardest thing or the biggest shift between the old version of Julia and this new awakened version of Julia? What was the hardest bridge to gap in that journey?
Julia:
[15:22] The hardest, let me think for a moment how to word it.
Peter:
[15:27] Yeah, I was like, I warn everybody before they come on, there's always going to be a curveball. They don't believe me.
Julia:
[15:33] It's like the biggest change was self-awareness and really like understanding that I'm at cause of the creation. The hardest thing, oh, I know what the hardest thing was, releasing control.
Peter:
[15:53] Releasing control. Control in regards to?
Julia:
[15:56] Everything. It turned out I'm a control freak.
Peter:
[16:03] I like the way you could – it's like, yeah, okay, I confess. I was in control for it. Yeah, okay.
Julia:
[16:07] So –, And I don't know if it's different between men and women, but like with women, we really thrive on feeling like consistency and really feeling security and predictability. And also with women, there's a lot of things going on in the head. Like I'm a planner and before I thought, well, planning was like a trait, but now I realize planning is a form of control so that I can predict what happens because, you forbid you turn up to a restaurant and there isn't an available table there, which is why I was always mad with my husband when we were dating back in the day because he would never book anything. He would just turn up and say, but what if it's booked out?
Peter:
[16:57] So totally different perspectives on the moment, I suppose, in that regard. So you've released a lot of that control aspect by now, by the sounds of it.
Julia:
[17:09] Yeah, and being an entrepreneur, it's one of those things.
Peter:
[17:14] If anybody's an entrepreneur, you all know too well, control does not exist in the entrepreneurial world. Planning to an extent.
Julia:
[17:22] I was fairly new at having my own business. I think it was only one year into owning the company that I've been working out for the past 22 years that I took over. And I think my coaching business, which back then I was a business coach, which I think it was only a year or two into that. So that was in the sense of relying on self and also being comfortable with not knowing was very new to me. And that really, like you said, the awakening process was very intense. And that was the biggest thing, was probably the hardest things I've ever had to do was when I was going through the awakening period.
Julia:
[18:04] I closed my coaching business the um
Julia:
[18:08] the business coaching coaching business because that.
Julia:
[18:11] Didn't feel aligned anymore and right at the same time my other company the brick and mortar just went completely dead for like three months just out of the blue it just just stopped like it was just one of those things the perfect opportunity to release control and to feel comfortable with not knowing and feel really regulate your nervous system so that on the outside you see zero amount of money coming in and lots of amount of bills coming out and feel completely neutral and happy and not worried despite of what you see in 3D and in your own energetic state change the frequency of that from fear and worry and all of those things to really shift it to the vibration that you want to be at which is abundance and happiness and contentment and peace that was super hard like it was so hard and I think it took me about two to three months to to get that but once I was able to go through it and it kind of gave me a little p a bit.
Julia:
[19:29] Of peace knowing that the reason I'm given this challenge in this particular way is probably something that I need to use in the future and which is something I help.
Julia:
[19:42] Entrepreneurs now with as well energetically so by me going through that really gave me the tools and understanding of what I'm taking others through so once I was able to shift that for myself everything changed business picked up again I started getting contracts left right and center I got a big contract that was worth more than my yearly income it just all came to me like I didn't go chasing for anything just fine call you know do you want to turn up to this job yeah okay.
Julia:
[20:13] And that's when I sort of got into that momentum. Like it's easy to be in a momentum and the feeling of abundance and all those things when you are in it and things are going well, but it's really hard to be in that state when things are going the opposite way, which is what I had to do and what I had to learn. But once I've learned it, then I was able to create whatever I wanted. I've got so many instances where I would go into this creation mode and I would imagine this particular booking coming in at the most bizarre circumstances and literally two hours later I would get that exact phone call with those circumstances, with the booking, and certain trips, certain places that I don't normally go to. Just like all of these things, it just felt easy to create when you kind of understand what state you need to be in. And then these quiet periods would come again and I'm like, well, I know how to get through it now. I don't need to focus on the quiet time or the lack of work because once you focus on it, you reinforce it because you are staying in that frequency. You're reinforcing the gap rather than eliminating the gap.
Julia:
[21:27] And then I would be able to shift it and the gaps became smaller and smaller. Like the gap might be two weeks, then the gap might be only two days, and then the gap might be only a few hours. So like once you learn how to do it, then you know how, like you don't need to be in fear because you know you have the power to actually shift it. Even though you don't have any control of anything, but you do have the power and in that way you do have the control.
Peter:
[21:58] But look, you bring in a valid point there because now, like you're saying, you've had to experience this and go through this because you can just see like even as you're taking us through there and like I can see, you know, all the wonderful cognitive, you know, things that you're trying to, I can feel like, oh my God, there's so much to explain here and I've got to try and condense like, you know.
Peter:
[22:22] Months and months of understanding experience into like five minutes. And it can be a lot because you can see that you're passionate about it you want to kind of get everything across but the beautiful thing is like you said this has led you into what you really are doing now because so you can help others with it which is realistically understanding and getting into frequency and vibration calibration and getting into that space so when we have a look because you know hence you know your you know alchemy creation is like bringing it all together but the whole thing here is was looking at going helping people with this and i love the way that you mentioned that like there's a few little hints there about you know surrendering into the gap rather than reinforcing the gap but when we're looking at someone and you're going right i'm having a quiet time like you are and i i know for a fact that i've experienced those quiet times and it usually happens in like month blocks like two to three four months for me when they happen, I know that's like, oh, get ready because things are about to jump. It's like this big jolt of charge, universal energy coming your way. Get ready for a bit of an explosion.
Peter:
[23:33] For someone who's sitting in it right now going, it's tough or they might be
Peter:
[23:40] in the burnout or they're just in this little quiet conundrum in their life. And if they're in this space and they're going, I don't know what to do, what would be one piece of advice you'd give them?
Julia:
[23:53] The biggest piece of advice would be to clear their energy to be in the neutral state. Once you're in a neutral state that's you can only shift things from that state because you can once you're neutral one you are not reinforcing the thing that you are already experiencing so it doesn't need to keep repeating itself so that pattern the external reality around you can change and second thing is if you actually want to influence what you want to happen if you want a particular desire goal whatever it is only from neutral state you can create that if you are in the say lack mentality and you try to create something that you want you are fighting the two frequencies with each other so on one hand you're trying to bring in the frequency of the desire on the other hand you are pushing it away because you're focusing on not having it So which one's going to be the stronger, the one that you're practicing the most? So that's going to be your reality and it's going to keep repeating itself. So if you can neutralize your state, that you're already that much further to your desire because you're not reinforcing the lack of it.
Peter:
[25:16] Okay. I love that. So instead of putting the two frequencies against each other, find that neutral ground. and if someone's listening going, oh, my God, okay, cool, I've got that, Julia. What's the neutral state? What does this look like? How does one shift from like life is hard, life is crap, I'm stuck or it's like I know what I want, I have something here but it feels like it is 10,000 years away from where I am right now. What's something or what's one tip that you can give our listeners and viewers to help kind of start to shift that energy a little bit?
Julia:
[25:58] Yeah well when we're in that state of not having something that we want let's say we're a business and we want clients if we're in that state of wanting more clients.
Julia:
[26:13] Everyone would be experiencing some sort of an emotional charge in their body so when they're thinking about that thing that they want and if their mind of conscious mind is focusing on the fact that they don't have it there will be some sort of a emotion in the body maybe it's frustration maybe it's anxiousness maybe it's just impatience something like that or disappointment like what whatever it is everyone would be experiencing something and whatever there is that emotion associated with your desire that's what keeps recreating the gap because that emotion is focusing on the gap not on the actual desire so they the emotion is associated with the lack of it not having a desire because if they focus on having a desire they would be feeling something like contentment happiness or appreciation something like that so they would feel like they already have it if they don't feel like they have it they would be experiencing something else so they can try and locate the emotion in the body and then move it so that it leaves the body and i teach really powerful practice how to do it very quickly in my programs.
Julia:
[27:24] But they can do it maybe through meditation or something where they can sit down and really let go and release any energy practices that they might be using basically anything to try and help, to release the emotion so that you're not, you're kind of like disassociating emotion from the event or from the desire to separate it and then release it, if that makes sense.
Peter:
[27:53] It does. And I think you beautifully summed it up there about like finding and becoming aware because, you know, coming almost full circle here, one of the biggest things you said was the self-awareness was such a huge like increase in your life through your awakening and through your learnings and you know this is a testament to what you've just been you know teaching us and talking to us about because finding that emotion or so-called like you know negative or lack emotion within the body and seeing that it's like okay it's here and it's only going to reinforce the state that it's focused on and it's going to increase the gap and I think that's a real fundamental way of helping people to understand it so the more you focus that on on that emotion the more you're going to create the gap the more it's like it's for what your desire is going to get further and further away if you focus on that emotion so and i love that and i appreciate that and of course this is that's me it's your jam you do have these programs i think that it's just absolutely perfect i loved and i'm so appreciative that you've had the time to share some of your journey. I know there's so much more that we'll probably end up chatting again and having another powwow about energy, vibration, and frequency somewhere down the path for sure. But I love it too because the other thing too is just because of what you're talking about. And this is something that is kind of been sitting in the background here for yourself.
Peter:
[29:18] You've been tentatively waiting for the right time, but you're now bringing out the frequency calibration free masterclass. Is that correct?
Peter:
[29:30] So if this is coming and this is where you're going to be helping people to understand this processes and kind of work through some of the things that we've talked about here so guys if that's where you want to jump in if you really want to start breaking this down you want to start, increasing that lovely manifestation abundance you can do it and the other thing too is what i like about julia your story is you make it sound simple you make it sound easy it doesn't sound like, oh, I've got to wait 10 years for this to happen. Like, you know, I think the proofs and the reporting is like, once you come to understand it, you increase your self-awareness, it's going to come here, and now you're just on a mission to help other people with this, isn't it?
Julia:
[30:10] Yeah, well, I mean, when you think about it, people probably have heard this a lot. Everything is already existing. All the timelines exist at the same time. It's hard for the mind to grasp, but if I say it in this way, for example, you're a business, you want clients. Your clients already exist. Your clients are already alive. Unless you work with newborns and they haven't been birthed yet, your client's already there. You just haven't linked up with them. So, the same thing with everything else in the world. And another thing I want to point out is every single invention, every single object around you, like this computer, this microphone, my wishing well, everything that exists has once first existed in someone's imagination. And that's how powerful our minds are.
Peter:
[31:03] It is and always says if it's if you've already if you've already thought it it's actually already created it is in existence because if you can think it it's already there so it's so powerful honestly you've got so much experience so much knowledge thank you so much again for joining me here on the pod and of course if anyone is interested in taking that step further or even have a look at it feel free to jump over and see julia for her frequency calibration
Peter:
[31:31] masterclass You can go and find it at alchemycreation.com forward slash masterclass. And, of course, we'll put that in the show notes. But, again, Juliet, thank you so much. There's so much there. I cannot thank you enough. And I can't wait to have you back on the pod again very, very soon.
Julia:
[31:47] Thank you for having me. It was a really, really interesting conversation.
Peter:
[31:51] Thanks, guys. And we'll stay tuned and we'll catch you in the next episode.
